Brought to my attention

Something flitered through the cyber waves today, and got me thinking! Oh dear lord I hear you say, not her thinking, oh yes my friends I have come out of my shell, therefore the brain is very much active.

Rejection

This is how it is boxed, labelled, in other words described in the dictionary:

To refuse to accept, submit to, believe, or make use of.
To refuse to consider or grant; deny.
To refuse to recognize or give affection to (a person).
To discard as defective or useless; throw away.

To refuse to accept, submit to, believe, or make use of.

I was surprised to have this one resonate with me.

Rjection is the other persons inablity to recongise what they need to face. We choose to feel rejected due to somebody elses inablity to face up to what is infront of them. They hide, duck and weave but don't stand up and tell you what is on there mind, what they are feeling, but most of all they can't stand up and be honest with themselves let alone with you.

Verbalising something makes it real and alot of time we don't like to open our eyes and hearts to reality. However reality is all about what we create and how we perceieve our enviroment, so we don't like to open ourselves up to ourselves.

We are never rejected! Now I can hear all of you sniffing at that statement, because lets face it we have all felt rejected in our lives, me include and rather recently too. Though when I look back on it, it was always somebody elses struggle, with honesty, connecting with themselves, denying what they had created, their own fear and finally all of that being projected onto said rejected person.

By realising that it's their internal struggle that is being highlighted, we learn not to take it personally, even though it can be directed at us, you see past the smoke screen and see what is the truth instead of what they are wanting you to see. Then their reality breaks down and your clarity arrives in the shape of understanding. When you understand you can let go, so let go of rejection because it's a smoke screen to viel the truth, that door that will lead straight to the heart of the situation.

Last little idea to throw out there is if those around us only add to our happiness, completion and joy how then can we feel rejected as nothing has been lost, discard or thrown away!